You did not land here by accident.
Parent
in Love
Rooted in Love: A Biblical Case for Raising Children
the Way God Actually Intended.
You were called to be here first.
It took both of our lifetimes to find ourselves standing here. Finally willing to hand the reins to Jesus and be the messengers He needs to share the truth about how God actually wants us to raise His children.
This book is not the result of a career decision. It is the result of obedience to a calling placed in Bonnie's heart in 1994 that she has spent 30 years becoming ready to fulfill.
Find a way to empower every child to know their greatness by age 12.
It took both of our lifetimes. And we are finally here. And so are you.
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Parent in Love
Rooted in Love: A Biblical Case for Raising Children the Way God Actually Intended.
This is the book the parenting world has been waiting for without knowing it existed. The book that finally tells the truth about what God actually said about children, about authority, about free will, about the rod of discipline, and about the spiritual battle that has been secretly stealing our children one diagnosis at a time.
Not through fear. Through love. Not through control. Through design. Not through punishment. Through the fruit of the Spirit made visible in the daily life of a family that was built to reflect God's own nature.
Something is wrong and nobody is saying it
Our children are in crisis.
And we have been knocking
on the wrong door.
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classified mental disorders in the current DSM-5-TR. In a single generation we have gone from trusting children's development to cataloguing their differences as pathology.
"For God is not a God of disorder but of peace." — 1 Corinthians 14:33
The God who declared Himself not a God of disorder but of peace is watching us label 297 varieties of it. And we keep taking our children back to the same system that has never been able to tell us exactly what to do to get exactly the result we need.
They are working with theory. Theory is just a fancy word for guessing.
We have been led by wolves in sheep's clothing. The system that was supposed to help our children has been looking for the answer in the wrong place. In the child. In the diagnosis. In the medication. In the therapy office.
But the answer was never in the child. The answer was always in the environment. The leadership. The language. The life skills hierarchy that nobody taught us to build.
Our children are dying. Spiritually. Mentally. Physically. And they are counting on us to change our ways.
Bonnie and Thomas Liotta. Co-Founders, Creating Champions For Life.
What this book will show you
The truth that sets every family free.
Your child was not born broken.
They are an image-bearer of the living God who has not yet been given the life skills to navigate their world well. Every child diagnosed, labeled, and medicated is still a champion waiting to be developed. Not fixed. Developed.
The same free will God gave you belongs to your child.
When you control children they rebel. When you give them free will within a structure of earning privileges, they rise up. They feel capable. They feel good about themselves. That is not a parenting theory. That is scripture lived out in a home.
Order through fear produces suppression. Order through design produces peace.
The parenting industry changed the tone. It did not change the foundation. The structure it sells is still built on waiting for something to go wrong and then managing it correctly. That is not order. That is damage control with good posture.
The rod of discipline was never a weapon.
The shepherd's rod guided, protected, and led. It was never an instrument of pain. "The rod of God brings comfort. Not a threat. Not an instrument of pain. A comfort. It is time to pick it up the way it was always intended."
If we follow the path of God, we will raise children in the fruit of the Spirit.
Love. Joy. Peace. Patience. Kindness. Goodness. Faithfulness. Gentleness. Self-control. These are not personality traits we hope our children develop. They are the natural fruit of a home that was designed to produce them.
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Chapter Three.
Order Is Not Control.
"Where there is no vision, the people perish." — Proverbs 29:18
The most accurate diagnosis of what goes wrong in a home with no intentional design ever written.
This chapter will show you the difference between a home built on fear and a home built on design. Between reactive parenting that is still built on waiting for something to go wrong, and proactive parenting that creates the conditions where the right thing becomes the natural thing.
You will learn why God designed the garden before He placed His image-bearers inside it. Why roots and wings are what our children actually need, not things, not provision without earning, not a kind yet firm tone delivered consistently in response to chronic misbehavior.
And you will understand, perhaps for the first time, that the chaos in your home is not caused by difficult children. It is caused by the absence of a designed environment. When no one has held the vision of what this home is supposed to look like and feel like and function like, the children do not produce that vision on their own.
In Chapter Three you will discover
Harlie at the desk. Already a champion.
This is what the principles look like in real life.
Why you are here
You did not find this book.
This book found you.
We did not choose to be here. We are being obedient to a calling. A dream placed in Bonnie's heart in 1994 and spent 30 years becoming ready to fulfill. A methodology Thomas spent 30 years developing in the room with the children everyone else had given up on.
It took both of our lifetimes to find ourselves standing at this moment. Finally willing to hand the reins to Jesus and be the messengers He needs to share the truth about how God wants us to raise His children.
The parents who are reading these words right now are the first. The ones willing to ask whether everything they have been taught about children was built on the wrong foundation. The ones who feel in their hearts that there has to be another way.
You are right. And this book is the answer you have been praying for.
"Train up a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not depart from it." — Proverbs 22:6
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